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Thursday, July 8, 2010

I'm a single mom! Pay me!

I am not speaking or accusing the whole community of single moms of being a pain in the ass. In fact, these are the people i truly respect for their courage, strength and dedication to raise their children without a man's help. In Malaysia, Single mothers are 90% Divorced or Widowed. Not the "touch and go kind" One peculiar woman, in her early 50s, i met 2 days ago, just annoyed the hell out of me. Highly defensive and rude, she threatened to beat the hell out of me. One word for her. BITCH!

I wont write the details of what happened here coz it might take like 5 hours and bore you all to death. To make long story short, my friend (who got herself involved in a minor accident with this woman's son) went to pay the how you call it... compensation money, about RM300. (100 USD)

By the way she greeted us, i knew it was gonna be a hell of an adventure. I was right. She sat on her lazy chair, her "injured" son on a sofa and started her bitching.

The way she looked down on me was apalling. "My son is a degree holder who's gonna do his masters in a few days. My daughter is also currently doing her degree. All my children are successful people with a strong religious faith." She continued, "My son never stop praising God during his whole drive on the road so how on earth is this his fault?" And then she looked at us up down unaware that im an upper class degree holder too.

Then her defensive act revealed. "I am a single mother but don't think i am scum in the society. I raised my son all by myself and I protect them from people like you. (people like me wtf??)And if i didnt have more patience i would already beat u two to death. I want more compensate money to buy him all the stuff again! Don't u dare think we single mothers can be bullied."

I was like "WHAT THE F@ck???" I realized this bitch is useless to argue with. later, her words just faded into "bitch... nag... bitch nag..."

1. So what if your stupid gay son (yeh a few hours later i found out her son is gay) has a degree in councelling? I have one too i didnt use it as a defensive act! Nothing special.
2. Being or acting religious wont win a court 's case. Dumbass.
3. So what if u praise God during your whole journey on the road? If that ever works, i would already have a good husband and career as i have been praying to god all my life.~
4. So what if you're a single mother and have to raise children on your own? Sorry but my compassion is limited and i'm already spending my sympathy on starving people in Africa or Animals being abused. Single mothers? You're just as Normal as everyone else.
5. Beat me to death? Zzzzzz... Because her son fell off a motorbike and ripped his pants? LOL!

Why is it such a big deal being a single mother that it becomes an excuse and defensive statement? I didnt even say anything about single mom being at the bottom of the food chain of my society and yet she was eager to rub it in my face that she's a superstar. Gosh. I wish she'd spend her time on thanking God her son is still alive, instead of thanking God she can use her 'single mom' status as an excuse for compensate money.

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