Random question time...
Which is worse? Your partner cheating on you emotionally? Or just physically?
Maybe a no-brainer for everyone. I'm sure most will just dive in and answer "Of course Physically not Emotionally coz it's barely visible"
Think about it. Personally i think that it would just hurt more if your partner cheats on you emotionally. Physical attraction is normally temporary and l doesn't last too long. But emotional attraction usually is permanent and leaves a deep scar that can't be healed. Why? Because it's not visible.
LOVE begins from the heart. When you're in love, it triggers all the weird hormones and emotions and affecting your physical being. It's the main reason why you're with your partner in the first place. Sex is random. You can live with or without it. That's why God created hands. When a person starts to develop devotion towards another, it affects their thinking and creates an obsession of longing for something they can't have. And this makes you the enemy. The only thing that is stopping them from pursuing the person they fell for. They began to despise you. Feelings are not a switch you can turn off and on anytime you want, and the more it is held back, the more it developes.
Until one day it bursts. Once your partner falls for another, they stop loving you. They would have this craving to engage in a physical event with the other and affect your whole relationship. It is OVER. Once he/she starts to fall for another person, consider your relationship over. Let's compare with physical adultry. It's almost the same thing. A crave for something different. A need for some variety in life. This is less harmful as it sounds, unforgivable, but trust me it ends. When your partner strays, there will be a point in this event where it will stop and he will come back to you feeling so guilty and disgusted with him/herself that he will do anything he can to fix the relationship.
So yeah, I truly believe that cheating emotionally is by far more harmful than physical. What hurts the body dont really hurt the heart. But what hurts the heart, is a life-long pain that can't be healed no matter how hard you try.
DON'T CHEAT! xD
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ReplyDeleteHow can Your partner cheat on you physically?
Hit you?
Feelings are not a switch you can turn off because you can't see the switch. It dosen't really mean the switch dosen't exist.I don't really want to see that switch eiter,though I always try to see it to switch off at the time i want.
People can be strong in heart, stroung in body or stroung in both of them. It meant that they either cant stand their heart hurt or their body hurt or cant stand nither of them. If you hurt in emotionally you can get crazy and still get better from it even if you cant replace your love with another. If your leg is cut, it never grown again thou it can be replaced with fake one. In the end it is just about if ur heart or body is strounger.
Nothing is life loong pain, it is just the pain last for long. Since you truly believe that cheating emotionally is by far more harmful than physical, it just meant your heart is not stroung enough to take the pain yet, so is mime too, for now.
yup yup Dont Cheat! xD