Why do people lie? To save their asses? To get what they want? Most of the people omit truth when they are afraid of the consequences of telling fact. So they chose to hide behind lies. Then what happens when it spills by itself? The consequences will get tougher. And the hurt would be indeed, deeper.
Someone very dear once told me even the worst truth is better than a lie. Of course I have been lied to, and i have committed lies myself. But years taught me im better off without and no matter what, sooner or later the truth will come out itself and it gets tougher to fix when series of lies are chained onto one another... So might as well save the pain and face the truth before it gets nasty.
White lies are those who are concerned with the protection of someone’s feelings. These are the lies for noble causes and it doesn’t hurt anybody. Well I supposed some situations do apply... Like when you see your friend looking at her worst, a huge zit on her forehead or hair resembling medusa, a little white lie would actually build up her confidence and strengthen your friendship. Telling people they look nice when they actually dont, is just human courtesy.
But what is NOT forgiven is when you know the truth and yet that one person lives in denial, doing everything he could to let that one issue be clouded with all the lies. Betrayed... Deceived... feelings of hurt overwhelm you and makin your heart just burns with anger and hatred. The truth is right in front of your eyes and yet he's lying to you.
"you will regret this when you know the truth!" He told me, as if all the things he said was true.
Well, I do know the truth, it's laying there in front of my eyes. I will never forget the day, the time where everything turned out to be just lies... As for me. I cant forgive. I wont ...
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