Pre-Menstrual syndrome or stress or also defined as Pre-menstrual Tension is a phase that happens EVERY month in an average girl's life. It mainly affects on emotional responses makin the girl more sensitive and as people nowadays call "emo" and every single little thing can make her overeact and change to pissy mode. Not all girls suffer this (yeah note that *suffer*, it's not pleasent at all) but majority of us do.
GUYSSSS CHILL!!!
Remember it's just a PHASE. (unless your girlfriend feeds on emo cookies and is emo for life) My normal PMS days are usually 1-2 days before the REAL period and 1 day during, sometimes one day after. So normally my average PMS phase lasts for 4 days. This is the moment where EVERYTHING is wrong. From the "I love you"s not being said enough to 10 hours of spending time together a day is "too short"
I'm not going to discuss on the scientific aspect of this situation you can look it up on wikepedia.
Bear with us, guys :) Not only do we have to suffer the menstrual cramps (trust me, the pain can even make a girl black out... Sometimes almost like giving birth) which drains out our energy, but we also have to take extra care on cleanliness and not to mention our bodies get supersensitive (low antibody) and exposed to all kinds of sickness, from migraine to diarrhea (sp?) so ye, i think that gives u every reason to walk around feeling like the whole world is trying to get us >.<
How to handle? Well don't try too hard. and DON'T NOT try at all. Just act normal and when she complains about how hard her life is, even when u just came back from a very stressful day, just listen and keep reminding her that everything will be okay.Yeah, giving too much attention may make her crave more and take a lot of your time, but hey, all we ask for is undying love and attention for 4 days in a month! Stop complaining when you ask for sex 120 times a month!
1. Make her feel attractive. PMS makes a girl feel totally ugly and gross so make her feel beautiful. Be creative.
2. Take her to awesome dinner restaurants. Don't let her cook unless u wannna taste a spoonful of cyanide.
3. Make surprise gestures like buy gifts (trust me, even a keychain would make her happy)
4. Call her (if ur away) every 30 mins-1 hour to check if she's feeling all right
5. Make her laugh, spend time with her, do something fun to distract her from the PMS phase (even if it backfires, the fact that u tried would make her happy)
6. Art therapy. Write a poem even if it sounds stupid. or just sing for her, even if it sounds more stupid.
7. Remind her again and again you love her and everything will be all right.
8. Kiss, hug, hold her hand all the time. Body contact is always welcome. Symbol of comfort.
9. LISTEN. When she nags, talk, complain.. LISTEN and always agree. ALWAYS AGREE.
10. Don't be a stranger. Just treat her like you always do that makes her love you everyday.
Don't see us as a different person just because of this. Ye the demons may make us wanna feed on your flesh but honestly we're very harmless. Just keep reminding your girl you're there for her and remind her things will be better. And ALWAYS pay attention unless you want her to go raid your garage for a chainsaw.
GOOD LUCK ^^ cheers
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