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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Why women cheat?!


Why do men cheat? Well the answer is simple. They're men. It's what they do. They treat women as women treat clothes. Wanting variety as wearing the same clothes is "boring". But modern days shows women and men as equals, and we with progestrone hormones commit the same crime. Yes. Women cheat. Googling this issue on the net today, i found a cool research on why WOMEN (as oppose to men cheat). And according to Askmen.com here are the reasons.

10. NOT ENOUGH SEX
Well like men, we do like to feel satisfied every now and then. Not the boring routine of pleasing his own needs and then the "oh im so drained. good night." Unlike men, women find the kissing and cuddling more satisfying than the maincourse itself. Sex is emotional, not an activity for us girls. Yes we are attention whores. If you can't provide it, we move on. "NEXT!"

9. BEING THE BAD GIRL
Expecting us to be the good girl who listens to u all the time, staying at home being goody goody is just WRONG. Like men we want to be admired, worshipped and we want to RAWR! If men can't make her feel this, might as well find someone who will. Women want to know all the time that she have options. One boyfriend is sometimes just not enough. The devil may be released from the angel once in a while. It's up to men to figure out how to handle these wave of hunger.

8. SELF ESTEEM
Yes. Cheating boosts the self esteem. Makes women feel there's always plan B when the unstable relationship she is being provided falls apart.

7. REVENGE/paybacks for past-wrong
Do it once, shame on you. Do it twice, shame on us. Once you had broken the relationship by cheating on women, or being the reason you fell apart they will ALWAYS cheat on you. Once a relationship has been broken, it will NEVER be the same. It's kind of the main reason why broken up couples should NOT get back together. And the confidence in the relationship has been destroyed, so women will always seek for another. Some may do it for revenge. Some just for the sake of it.
6. LACK OF INTIMACY
Like #10 this is the part where men are so newb at. God created Eve to be Adam's companion. She was made from his weakest rib bone to symbolize the fragileness (self-made word) of womanhood. Women NEEDS love and attention. We need to be cared about, to be told that we are loved, to be reminded that we are beautiful. Women needs to be touched, not just physically but directly where it counts the most. The HEART.

5. FEELING NEGLECTED/IGNORED/UNAPPRECIATED
An ex of mine once asked me why is he never enough for me. Why must there always be other men in my life. Well here's the answer. I WAS UNAPPRECIATED. I was treated like a switch he could turn off and on anytime he wants to. I am a place he can curse and yell at and say whatever comes in mind. I dont cheat to sleep with other men. I just wanted to be NOTICED. to be APPRECIATED. And until I can get this from one man. There will always be another.

4. MEN's EMOTIONAL WITHDRAWAL
Once a man decided to stop listening, it's when a woman decided to stop talking. And when a woman decided to stop talking, it's a sign she's moving on. When a man doesn't help his woman emotionally, she will seek someone who will.

3. BEDROOM BOREDOM
When a man couldn't be bothered to put his own needs aside for 2 minutes to do what a girl wants, it get's boring. We need to be entertained too. "Next!"

2. EXIT STRATEGY
Instead of breaking up with you, we cheat on you. Why? so we dont have to go through the "heart-broken" phase. Women can sense sometimes when a relationship is falling apart. Smart. But evil.

1. REVENGE FOR YOUR CHEATING
None of my boyfriends really cheated on me (thank God!) but during a "break-up" phase one did involve another woman in. And the visual image couldnt leave my head. It's a sign of disaster in this relationship because there are things that can't be forgiven. The bitterness of the affair will always haunt my head. And for that i could never stop seeking for another man's attention.

It's just ego, guys. Don't give us any reason to stray. And we are yours to be forever <3

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